Life Shapes Us
Life changes us. I remember different stories of my ancestors especially those that came through the great depression. I once heard a story about my Grandfather when he went to a barn raising as an old man. He brought a bucket of used bent nails and proceeded to straighten those bent nails so they could be used again. He came through the Great Depression and that waste not want not mentality and making due with what he had was how life had shaped him. One of my Aunts that had also came through the Great Depression had also developed that waste not want not mentality. Family members told how she would save gallon size plastic ice cream containers and would put them to other uses and even would sell them for a dine at a yard sale. Life had shaped her. We live in much easier times where we go to a grocery store and can buy microwaveable dinners. We stick them in the microwave and in just a few minutes we have a hot meal that took almost no preparation. Life shapes us, but is it good or bad? I know someone struggling with rehabilitation after a stroke. They have always lived a fairly easy life and now life as given challenges in the form of disabilities. How will life shape us in difficult circumstances? I think of a cousin who had a stroke at an early age and he had to retire from his job because of it. How did his difficulties in life affect him? He drags that foot and still mows lawns for himself and a few of his neighbors. He can lift a push mower with one arm, his good arm and load and unload it off his truck. He lives the best he can with his disability. The first stroke victim mentioned above wants to die if not restored to 100%. How does life shape us? I went through divorce more than once, I prayed many a prayer, don't let bitterness take a hold in my heart and my life because of difficult circumstances. I tried again more than once and tried to maintain a good attitude and I learned to forgive. I looked at my own life and things I needed to change and was and am able to develop a good marriage relationship. Many have used difficult happenings in life to make them better, not bitter. There is a saying God is more interested in our character than our comfort. Has life shaped your character in a positive or negative direction. What have we done with the difficulties we faced in life? I think this is something to consider, how has life shaped us? God bless, LVZ.

